Something that I’ve done when I was younger, fell off the radar for a bit, and within the past five years began doing it more often, and I love it!
I try to tell the younger people (thankfully only a few listened), don’t be so quick to wanna court somebody. Get to know yourself as an individual first, get yourself in line with the real world first, get yourself together physically, emotionally, mentally, financially, and for those who believe in a higher power, spiritually!
Travel, see the country, get a passport, visit other countries, observe new things, get to know other people.
I’ve traveled more times in a year than I have in a decade. I don’t plan on stoppin’ anytime soon!
The beauty of travel-expense notwithstanding-is that despite how taxing and on occasion, even daunting, is that when you finally come home, your view of things changes!
I didn’t realise that until I’ve gotten a little older because I’ve only traveled within the Midwest region, but when I’ve expanded my travels to the Deep South, that all changed. When I traveled to the Mid South/Mid Atlantic region, that all changed, when I’ve obtained my passport in 2016, and made my first international travel to Panama a year later, it was go time then!
I think you get the gist of this by now.
And twice this past year my wife and I vacationed on the West Coast/Southwest (Vegas, L.A., San Diego, Bakersfield, Phoenix, Scottsdale, Tucson, Grand Canyon,Tusayan, Verde River, The Four Corners Monument, the list continues for quite some time).
Again, I speak to the young people as well as the old, travel now, travel often. Your view of things will change!
Money shouldn’t be too much of an issue of you have some connections, if you know some people who can get you lodging for little or nothing, jump on it!
Only a complete idiot would turn down free legitimate lodging (I know a few, unfortunately).
One last note for those who wish to travel but lack the means to do so: If you want bad enough, you’ll make a way for it, if not, you’ll make excuses! I can say that because I’ve been there and done that.
I’ll take the former over the latter any day of the week!